Inspired by We Don’t Need Another Hero, “We Don’t Need Another Gatekeeper” is a call for creatives to stop waiting to be chosen. It’s about access, ownership, shared knowledge and building systems that help opportunity multiply.

A TCM blog exploring self-help, privilege, and lived experience through a critical look at why success advice doesn’t start everyone from the same place.

With her back to the camera, Shaquita Borden, founder and lead designer of Velvet Butch, throws both thumbs up, proudly pointing to the VB logo on her jacket..

A reminder of what it looks like to step out of the background and into the moment–with Dr. Maurice G. Sholas

Caught in the middle of the moment–music up, joy louder, and not a single worry in sight. This is what it looks like when you let go and just feel the celebration as Anisa is dancing at a wedding reception in her own world.

My name is Anisa Parks.

For a long time, I lived in the space between who I was… and who I knew I could be.

I built things. Led things. Created space for others to feel seen.
But internally, I was still navigating procrastination, questioning my voice, and shrinking when it mattered most.

I often felt like an imposter in my own life.

And eventually, I got tired of it.

That’s why I created Notes from The Curated Misfit—a space where growth gets honest, where fear gets challenged, and where showing up happens before everything feels perfect.

Because I’m not waiting anymore.

I’m showing up now.

Fully. Honestly. On purpose.